Witnessing growth is fun. Sitting down, feet up, surrounded by boxes + dust bunnies = growth for this gal.
It’s interesting to think back to a younger version of me, the one who couldn’t sit down until EVERYTHING was “done.” Oh, bless her heart. She thought there was this place you could reach where everything would be “done.” Honestly, learning that there was no “end” to the workload and responsibility of this marriage and career and adulting thing was jarring in the least. I felt overwhelmed by the knowledge that I would never “arrive” at this land of “done-ville” until my life came to a close. It’s taken adjustment and a whole lot of grace to breathe into this lifestyle of intentionally leaving things undone. Often.
If I’m honest, I can still readily get snared into thinking the tasks must be done before it’s “responsible” to say yes to people. 😑 That may be fine, even applauded by much of the world. Oh, to be so “disciplined.” I wonder how many books alone have been written on the topic. “Productivity hacks” run rampant in our culture, and I have often fallen for it hook, line, and sinker.
But my standards have changed over the years. I no longer let “whatever” pass by my eyes and ears. I have waged the battled against mainstream media to be my source of “enough ness” and what I “should be” striving for.
Now I look to God, and rely on the Holy Spirit to guide me. In the Bible, Jesus never modeled ditching people to go organize the stacks of fish or clean up the tent. I have so much more room to grow in this area and I am here for it.
Where my sisters at who also have a hard time prioritizing people and BEING over tasks? 🙋🏼♀️ And I’m not talking about what you really want in your heart. In my own heart it’s people all the way. I mean in your actions. In your calendar. Where do your feet and hands and mouth go each day? I’m not sharing this to shame you or me. Nope. Nada. Not interested. But I am hearing God cheer me on in this awareness of becoming more like Mary and less like Martha when it comes to the slowing down, stopping, making the phone call, and simply being present. 💚
So…here’s a nod to sitting down, feet up, making time to “just” B PRESENT.
[Check out the full story of Mary & Martha in Luke 10: 38-42.]